You do not control the daylight, the traffic light, or the light at the end of the tunnel.
Stop obsessing about how those things are not lighting up at your command.
Instead focus on what the daylight reflects when it shines on you, the speed and direction of your mind, and what you can gain from each step in the tunnels you choose.
Life experience is a collection of impositions and choices.
How you choose to engage with it is up to you!
