Let’s explore five additional misconceptions about mental toughness and uncover the facts about mental toughness:
Myth: Mental toughness means always being “tough.”
Reality: Mental toughness is the mental strength to be aware of your thoughts and feelings, enabling an effective response when facing challenges or opportunities. Being ‘tough’ is one of the biggest misconceptions of what mental toughness is really about. Often, being mentally ‘tough’ or showing ‘grit’ it’s also about the power of vulnerability.
Myth: Mental toughness is about avoiding failure.
Reality: It’s about embracing challenges and learning from setbacks or failures – remember, “you win some, you learn some.”
Myth: Mental toughness equals fearlessness.
Reality: It’s about acknowledging your fears and having the awareness, clarity, and confidence to tackle challenges head-on.
Myth: Mental toughness requires being solitary or fiercely independent.
Reality: Being mentally tough involves being connected and knowing when to seek support and ask for help when needed. Community is a key part of building resilience, and all manner of connections can assist in supporting you on your journey to becoming mentally tough; mentorship, friendship, family and work colleagues. As the old adage goes ‘it takes a village!’
Myth: Mental toughness means being unbreakable.
Reality: One of the top facts about mental toughness is that ultimately, it’s about cultivating resilience, adaptability, confidence, and compassion – strength with flexibility – like all good things in life, it takes work, but the rewards are immense.
Understanding these additional myths and truths can help us develop a more accurate and well-rounded understanding of mental toughness, allowing us to grow and thrive in various aspects of our lives.
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